Perfect Match.

(source: concordia1950.com)

..what I could start with, though, would be some criteria for the "man of my dreams" that I compiled together with a friend (and psychologist/HSP) two days before the shooting.

Those were (with some alterations):

- preferably tall (i.e. taller than me) and dark-haired, skinny to athletic type (..but if u're blonde and a match, the hair colour is secondary)

- loving and kind, a focus on intimacy rather than sex. (I am dominant at work, but a harmony seeker at home)

- intelligent, if possible an HSP (extravert or introverted I don't care, though I do have a penchant for the "quiet/shy" type)

- likes to travel, open-minded (cosmopolitan), a fast learner

- loyal and faithful (self-understood, really).

- good to excellent English (I failed to mention that on T.V.)

- young (under 34, my last dates were all around 25), preferably NOT Austrian (IF an Austrian, as critical as I am about the place), Asian or Caucasian white preferred.


- money isn't an issue (might be a student), though if it's there it won't hurt.

- communicative, maybe a writer (at least with a taste for language)

- sensitivity and general taste. for life, beauty, design, art, music, SUSTAINABILITY (I was once pondering buying a worm composter for my organic garbage:)

- somebody patient. Who understands that (good) things need to grow. And that relationships sometimes require (some) work to run smoothly after a while.

- somebody who wants to BUILD something together: be it a home, a business, a family (preferably all three ;).

-  emotional depth and experience and some psychological savyness would be much appreciated, since I am still laborating on my second burnout.

- protective (when needed).

- Ah: and I LOVE eccentrics. :)

--> in short: if you look, act and love like Hannibal Lecter in the Thomas Harris books (without the killing and the eating human meat) you might be my perfect match. ;D...

AND THE  MOST IMPORTANT CRITERIA OF ALL: you need to have a pure soul (and love for me).
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